Things to Maintain Happy Marriage
Amazing Tricks to Maintain Happy Marriage
Things to Maintain Happy Marriage
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Create your own rituals
It
can be as simple as making your husband coffee in the morning while he lets you
go to bed on the weekends. Whatever you choose, a 'couple' ritual is a way to
connect with your partner in the obsession of a busy life. "The comfort of
small rituals is to build trust, to maintain safety, and to increase love -
these are the things that help us spend the day in the outside world."
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Learn to communicate
If
you or your husband is a weak communicator, just don't tolerate it, Meredith
says - being able to talk openly with your partner is a sign of a strong
marriage. "Develop your skills - go to classes, read books, observe good
communication and interview them about techniques, ask for feedback,
practice."
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Money matters
You
need to come up with a new mix. You two will work. It's easy to have a big
joint account where you both have to tell each other what you do, and a slash
fund modest private account where you spend your money. Can become themselves
without justification.
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Respect and love are deal breakers
Small
gestures make a difference - if you want your marriage to last, keep reminding
each other that you love each other and nurture your relationship with kind
words. You need to treat each other with respect. Then you need to adjust to
each other.
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Adultery and jealousy are different
things.
No
matter how difficult a marriage may be at times, and when there may be interest
in the relationship, it is intended to harm almost everyone involved -
including the children. "Either you're in or out - never humiliate your partner
with duplicity. It's not cute or sweet, it's inappropriate, and can lead to
violence. Get help. See a counselor, and discover the past and work on it.
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