The Best Secrets to a Happy Marriage
The Best Secrets to a Happy Marriage that Every Husband and Wife Should Know
The Best Secrets to a Happy Marriage
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Have fun together
Play a lot and laugh at
each other's jokes. Enjoy camping or playing crazy games together in your living
room.
Go for ice skating or
sledding or whatever you used to do as a child but this time bring your spouse!
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Give more than you take.
Better a poor horse than
no horse at all. Think and act randomly. Surprise your partner all the time,
even if it's just dinner.
"You can't sit back.
My husband and I have chosen that our marriage is the most important thing to
us. We respect what we have and understand how we need to feed it.
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Speak the language of their love.
Learn and practice your partner's
language of love. Dr. Gary Chapman has found 5 different languages of love:
words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and
physical contact.
"We can't trust our
mother tongue if our spouse doesn't understand it. If we want them to feel the
love we're trying to communicate, we have to put it in the language of their
primary love. Should explain.
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Put the other first.
Practice selflessness and
support each other - always! Contact your spouse once a day, once a week and once
a year!
"Staying in a long
wedding is a bit like a good cup of coffee every morning - maybe I drink it
every day, but I still enjoy it."
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Boast about your spouse.
Pick them up in front of
your friends. Start bragging about your spouse. Be proud of your marriage.
Express your love for your spouse in public.
"I like marrying my
wife - that's the best thing that's ever happened to me."
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Keep the romance alive.
Go to dates. Light the
candles. Hug and kiss every day. In a short time, make your bedroom look like a
fancy hotel with candles, lots of pillows and flowers.
"We have a lot of
candles in our bedroom. I wish we always had a honeymoon.
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Talk about it
Communicate your thoughts
and feelings. Connect with your spouse, face to face and nose to nose.
"We talk a lot. Sometimes people
hear us talking and think we talk more than the situation, but conversation is
everything.
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