Secrets to be a Happy Marriage

Effective Ways to be a Happy Marriage 

Secrets to be a Happy Marriage

·         Little things often

If marriage is a journey, it is important that you be in the right direction. It's easy to make small efforts as you go about optimizing a larger course when it may be too late.

Small changes can cause big changes quickly and often over time. Prioritize daily expressions of kindness. This will help you to remember that you like each other.

 

·         Action is everything.

Therapy ends when the couple can handle the relationship without a doctor. This means that couples need to focus on how they talk to each other more than what they say.

The process is basically about knowing (a) what you are feeling, (b) why you are feeling it and (c) what that feeling means.

As you develop this skill, you will dramatically change the quality of communication in your relationship.

 

·         Most kinship disputes are not resolved

Almost all relationship conflicts are chronic. It can be good news or bad news, depending on how you view it. It's a powerful secret to know that you literally can't solve most of your problems ... and that you're not really alone. The goal then is to solve your problems and have a dialogue around your enduring problems.

 

·         Consultation is essential before understanding

Especially when it comes to chronic problems, it is important to understand that "solutions" are a bad strategy. Empathy and understanding are always the first step to a solution.

Be great at saying, "I can appreciate how you feel because ...". Start by trying to understand. Check if you got it right. Then try to understand something else. Understanding protects.

 

·         Make room for sex

If you and your husband have the same desires, don't worry about having sex in the back seat. If one wants more sex, however, Meredith suggests making room for sex in a busy schedule.

\"It could mean getting a good night's sleep and going to bed the first night, canceling any other promises, keeping the kids in mind, turning off your phones and computers, and having nice conversations with each other."

Think about what the other person wants, not just what you want to give. So, ask them, take it over and over and take your time.

 

·         Respect and love are deal breakers

Small gestures make a difference - if you want your marriage to last, keep reminding each other that you love each other and nurture your relationship with kind words.

"You need to treat each other with respect. Then you need to adjust to each other.