Great Tips to Find a Happy Marriage
Amazing Things to Find a Happy Marriage
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Be positive - not playful
Did
your husband force you to marry him or did you choose to marry him? Most of us married
at the behest of our husbands. Why did you get married Did his kindness win you
over or did he make you laugh? Look positive for your husband and your marriage
and respond with gratitude.
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Find other ways to be happy
If
your wedding isn't filling your tank of happiness, find other ways to fill it.
One of the surest ways to be happy is to help others. It could be a small
gesture like writing a letter of encouragement once a week, or making cookies
for a neighbor. And what makes you happy? Think about it. What do you think
makes you smile? Identify those who create happiness and put them to work.
Remember, ancient writers share that happiness lies in recognizing the
blessings that come from making good choices.
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May faith increase your happiness
Ultimately,
having a great purpose in life, and pursuing it, gives meaning to our lives and
brings happiness. Most of our pursuits of happiness bring temporary results
unless they are rooted in something else. One of the surest ways to find your
true purpose in life is to build on your faith. That way, you are not basing
your happiness on the reaction of others to your actions or efforts. You are
happy because you know that you love someone who has more ability to love than
your husband.
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Take rest
This
may sound crazy, but it's not. If we are tired, we will not feel happy. We
don't even want to choose happiness. Our outlook will be sour and we will
definitely not choose happiness when it is very easy to slip into unhappiness.
Remember, true happiness is the answer to the blessings in our lives. If we are
too tired to see these blessings, we will not be able to feel happy.
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Get closer
Even
if we choose happiness between such a perfect marriage, wouldn't it be nice to
have a marriage that makes it easier to choose happiness? Don't give up trying
to improve your marriage. Even if you feel that your efforts to get close to
your husband have been thwarted, keep going. Follow what you give to your
children - perseverance and endurance.
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