5 Secrets to Do to Have a Happy Marriage

Top 5 Silent Tricks to Do to Have Happiness in a Marriage Life

5 Secrets to Do to Have a Happy Marriage

·         Don't compare

It was too big for me. When we first got married, we were friends with another married couple who did everything together.

Even grocery shopping was done as a unit. And it made me worry that we weren't like that.

To make matters worse, I didn't want Perry to go shopping with me, but I saw the couple and thought they had something we didn't do.

 

·         Protect your time together

This is very easy before you have children. When it's just the two of you and you're free to go to the movies or have a quiet dinner that doesn't include chicken fingers, it's easy to stay connected whenever you want.

But having your baby takes a little more effort. Don't forget to take time to spend together as a couple.

The kids who can take every minute of your time will be gone one day and you don't want to look at a spouse on the table who has become a stranger while you were running the carpool.

·         Remember to laugh

Life is serious There are bills to pay and problems to solve and children to train grandchildren.

But don't forget to laugh because, let's face it, sometimes life is funny and I think we do better when we take the time to admit it.

 

·         Sorry and move on

Some of our biggest fights during our marriage are the ones that come after any of us (usually me, if I'm honest) have allowed a lot of small things to get angry that then a big one.

The thing becomes. The next thing you know, we're screaming at each other over the water bill and that's not the real problem because the real problem started a month ago when I thought they weren't helping me around the house enough. Was and is generally selfish.

 

·         Speak hypocritically

Your spouse is not a reader. And sometimes we need to follow the advice we give our children and "use your words."

Let them know when something is bothering you or when you're in trouble, and a month later when you're stuck in it until you're ready to explode.

And then - this is a big one - forgive them. The biggest fact that has come to me over the years is that my husband never deliberately tries to hurt me. He can say or do anything, but he never wants to be angry with me.