What does a Happy Marriage Look like? Best Tips

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What does a Happy Marriage Look like? Best Tips

·         When you stop comparing yourself to other couples

As I get older, I find that comparing marriages and listening to other people's standards doesn't work. I have been with my husband for ten years.

I can't even count the "perfect" couples who gave us advice and told us how wonderful their relationship is, that they are no longer together, or that there are issues.

Meanwhile we fight sometimes, we are not always "in love", we have a hard time, but we move on happily every year.

 

·         When "good" actually becomes ... good

When I was a teenager, my mother seriously considered leaving her father because she felt she didn't have that much passion and connection.

I really thought it was a terrible match and maybe he should divorce her. Years later, I can see a lot of how they fit in, how they make each other happy.

 

·         When you can both stand on your own

I think a good marriage allows both partners to be their best personalities. Partners should help each other grow in positive ways, whether it's a gentle push, or a happy edge, or a step back and allow the other person to find their passion. Your spouse should encourage you to get better, without forcing you to lie to yourself.

 

·         When good and bad are irrelevant

I don't like the idea of ​​"good" marriages and "bad" marriages, because it feels too much to compare yourself to someone else, as they say.

I don't think anyone outside of marriage can decide if someone's marriage is good or bad, especially overall. At best, I would say, "This aspect of their relationship doesn't look healthy."

 

·         When you understand that marriage comes with danger

It was gratifying to hear that yes, even in a "good" marriage there are moments of doubt and conflict and moments of fear and anxiety.

I asked my pastor's wife, "Does marriage only reduce the risk? As you marry someone and make the best decisions and work and hopefully it will work."

"Yes, basically. Marriage is really difficult. But it's also really amazing. "It simply came to our notice then.

 

·         When there is enough for each other

I'm really proud of my husband and my relationship, considering we've only been together for four years.

The way we chose to communicate openly with each other is one of the most positive aspects of our relationship - the way he told me he had melanoma in three months of dating the way we Has dealt with her recent miscarriage.