The Keys to a Happy Marriage
The Important Keys to a Happy Marriage Relationship
The keys to a Happy Marriage
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Trust
You have to trust marriage. And when I say that, I mean believing and trusting in someone's intentions. Trusting your partner means believing that they want the best for the relationship and that they are doing their best to make it work.
Confidence
is essential to the foundation of marriage. Doubt only puts pressure on the
relationship and causes too much trouble. Without trust, you can't fully enjoy
your marriage because you always expect something suspicious, suspicious or
worse.
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Commitment
Your commitment to the relationship is essential. You can't be half and half out - either you're all or you're just wasting time.
Commitment is the fulfillment of a relationship. And if you find yourself questioning your commitment - it needs to be addressed. Why do I feel that way? What caused me to lose faith in my marriage? What can we do to restore our promise of loving and caring for one another? You both have to be dedicated to having a good time and enduring the bad.
Learn to
hold on to each other when difficult and lift each other when you want to give
up.
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Stability
Your overall stability is important for a successful marriage. Emotional, kinship and financial stability - these three factors will make or break you. Finding balance by learning the process of giving and receiving can help you build stability.
Understand that a stable marriage is a happy marriage - it means that everyone's needs are being met and no one is missing out.
I always talk to couples about the "love
box". It's like a little box between you - you both put in, you both take
out. The key is to put in the things that your partner really wants and vice
versa.
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Faith
Your faith will keep you determined. Your faith will keep you focused. Your faith will keep you strong. It prevents you from giving up and walking.
When a marriage seems to be breaking up and you feel like you are losing your mind, it will keep your sanity. This will happen if you both expect your commitment to marriage to be fulfilled.
But you have to believe that it is possible to be really happy in
your marriage. Make sure you can overcome any obstacles together. The key is to
be with each other. Now, it is possible that you can trust your spouse. I have
seen this work many times.
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Patience
Successful marriage requires patience. It's part of the package when you say "I do." Many times, we think we are "one" on the altar, but we are not. You become "one" with priority (putting your partner first), perseverance and priority.
You choose, but then you have to let the process of "becoming one" happen. You must allow their room to grow and make mistakes. Understand that a strong relationship takes time - it's a process.
You have to
be patient and support each other. With patience comes forgiveness - with
patience comes tolerance - with patience comes patience - with patience comes
reward.
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Acceptance
None complete. You must be prepared to accept the good with the bad and the flawed. A level of grace is needed - to understand that they are human and will make mistakes. In addition, you must recognize your strengths and learn to balance each other.
One of you may be better at managing money - the other may be better at managing your children's busy schedule.
Learn to use your strengths to your advantage. At the same time, learn to acknowledge your weaknesses and work to improve them. It is important to learn to understand your partner's weaknesses and to balance your strengths. Accept them for who they are and let them grow.
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