Most Overlooked Reasons Why Marriages Fail

Reasons for Why Do Happy Marriage Fail

Most Overlooked Reasons Why Marriages Fail

·         Unforgivable

Our failure to truly forgive our marriage partners is one of the main reasons they fail. True forgiveness is when we are able to treat our partners as if we have never committed a crime that is very difficult for couples.

We are constantly refreshing the trauma of past experiences that never allow wounds to heal.

 

·         Not showing up for your spouse

There are many things that can happen during a wedding, as Dr. Bradford mentioned. As we experience the ups and downs of life, it is important that our partners "show up" in some of the most difficult experiences, whether it is losing a home, the death of a child or a sick parent.

Sadler suggests the importance of being able to ask your partner, "What do you need it for?" Instead of speculating, she refers to a big problem as we just have to solve it.

 

·         Forget friendship

Somehow the terms "husband" and "wife" are more stressful than we have felt in our premarital relationship. Too often, without realizing it, we forget the friendship that was formed in the process of dating and becomes very distant after marriage.

 

·         Unclear expectations

This is definitely an area that penetrates our ability to communicate but is a special part of this puzzle that is often missed. Not only do we miss the opportunity to discuss our expectations, but we also begin to act on expectations that are not met. 

"We come from different backgrounds and expect different things and Never talk to their partners about it. Women never let men know how important security is to us. We think men should know how to provide, protect and so on.

 

·         Lack of flexibility

"Even if a couple has worked hard and discussed and agreed on big issues such as finances and parenting, there should be room in the plans to change things. Working outside the home. A partner's thoughts about the child may change after entering the family, or health issues may arise that may affect your sexuality.

 

·         Family or social pressures

Often our family has ideas about who we should marry. Women also run the clock when it comes to starting a husband and family, so they are not marked with a red "30 and single".

 

·         Lack of self-knowledge

"There is a mix of people who have never figured out what they like or need, and there are some who feel better about their families. They have a history of family and social image on paper. Looks good, whether it's fit or stand out, depending on the individual and their life experiences.