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‘12 Reasons Why Married Couples Fight and Simple Tips to Avoid Fights’  

From daily chores to life's big decisions, from sweet notes to serious criticism, couples fight over everything under the roof. Life in our cities brings more challenges as well as more elections.

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Relationships offer wonderful benefits for prosperity, life satisfaction, and stress management, but without their challenges no one can put a strain on a couple, but by working through them either Their relationship can be strong or they can be separated, depending on how they deal with the challenges they face.

Getting married in a healthy way can be difficult, especially since stress can come from many different sources.

    Reasons Why Married Couples Fight

1.      Parenting

Differences in parental practices are another major cause of conflict. This can also be an important factor when partners come from different cultural backgrounds. Extensive parenting interventions can cause marital distress. Equally painful is the family's growing involvement in fertility. One of the other issues is when partners have raw work schedules that interfere with family eating routines or children's study and sleep routines. Children lose the feeling of being neglected by one parent or become too attached to one parent, leading to conflict between the couple.

            

2.      family

Couples fight over each other's extended family. In a joint family arrangement in India, the daughter-in-law is generally expected to live by the rules set by her father-in-law and this is a major cause of differences between couples.

3.      Jealousy

Teasing, heterosexuality and social media friends often cause jealousy and friction between the couple. Also, unequal success at work or too much attachment to one's partner's parents or siblings can lead to jealousy and neglect in a couple's relationship.

 

4.      Money

Bills, pay out habits, monitory priorities are to come on the list. People consider expenses separately and couples do not always agree on each other's expenses. One can be a spender and the other a saver. Also, a new type of controversy is emerging in India, where in-laws and / or husbands try to control the income of working women and exclude them from financial decisions.

 

5.      Personal habit

Daily habits can also lead to arguments between couples, especially if a partner has a compulsive hygiene and hygiene problem. Differences in general discipline or discipline in the home, toilet routines and TV habits can also lead to regular adjustment problems between the couple.

 

6.      Household/Domestic

When both partners work, it is normal to divide the household chores. Big problems arise when a partner feels that the family's income is not enough to run the household or meet the needs of the children.

    Simple Tips to Avoid Fights’

1.      If you're in a bad mood, back off

We all have days where we are not in the best mood. If your day is getting worse and your anger is less, step back and avoid having a heated conversation with your partner. If they start a discussion that touches the nerves, say something along their lines, "Look, it's better if we don't talk right now. I'm not in the right frame of mind." By backing up at the right time, you can avoid a fight that could turn into something bigger.

            

2.      It took time to calm down

In the over hastily, it's rigid not to react. However, a good reason for this is that after five minutes of fighting, we feel more rational and remorseful. When we feel someone moving with some intensity, it is often an indication that something deeper is unfolding. Our partner's wrong words or straightforward looks can make us feel old, negative feelings about ourselves that make us angry, embarrassed, or defensive.

We then react in ways that do not always suit the situation and in fact often exacerbate it. If we can end ourselves in this moment of strength, get a walk, or while take a few deeper, long breaths, we can obtain some perspective and give back to a more rational state of mind. Instead of getting bogged down in our own heads, we can stay in the moment and choose how we want to respond with more awareness and sensitivity than the other person.

 

3.      Don't fight for old reasons

When you are arguing with your husband, always make sure that you are not fighting over a dead topic. Don't dig out old titles when you're fighting. This will further inflame your argument and take it to a whole new level. So, avoid old dying topics when you are fighting your husband.

 

4.      Talk about things in a positive way

Positive and constructive communication is always good for a healthy relationship. Talk about things in a positive way. Don't be decisive and analytical all the time. Instead of pointing your finger at your personality or playing the blame game, speak up about your differences. Every couple’s responsibility to talk about things a positive way between them, don’t tell lie each other.

 

5.      Don't be loud

Most of the time when you are angry or upset about something, you just get louder or raise your voice a little bit to even see that you are doing it. It can make the other person angry and upset. This can lead you both to a new argument or fight. Silently and coincidentally say whatever is on your mind instead of raising your voice.

If a man is in a tension or stressed due to lack of work time, if he raises his voice, then his wife should understand it, and ignore his anger.

6.      Respect each other's place and privacy

Most couples forget that their spouse has a life of their own and beyond. Respect each other's status and individuality. Don't act like a spy all the time and ask your spouse the last questions. Let her enjoy her leisure time.

Both are respect each other don’t share their privacy to third person, if they are live to each other there is no fight between them.