Best Tips for Happy Marriage

 

            10 Essential Tips for a Happy Marriage

        

A good marriage is a lot of work. Most people don't want to hear that. Many couples get married in La Land. But a marriage requires two people who really want the marriage to last a long time and include two happy people.

Marriage is both simple and complex. On the one hand, it's as easy as choosing someone for life. On the other hand, it's as complicated as choosing someone for your whole life!

            10 essential tips for happy married life

1.      Be honest with each other

Some people think that making the other person happy is the best plan for marriage. But in the end, if you are always fulfilling the other person's desires, while keeping your own desires and needs under the carpet, resentment grows inside you. Whether it's important decisions like your spouse should take on a new job and take you both out of the state, like the little things, such as which restaurant to eat at, be honest with your spouse.

 

2.      Spending time together

Married partners need time together to be strong. Schedule scheduled nights and weekend activities regularly. If immediate return is not possible then make it a goal towards which you will work. By spending time with your partner, you will better understand your differences and the problems they cause. Forget the "quality vs. quantity of time" discussion - both healthy / happy married life is needed.

 

3.      Agree on how to raise your children

If you have children, agree in advance on ways to raise them. That way the kids can't stand one of you against the other. Always talk about discipline before making decisions for your children. You want to present a united front to your children so that they do not pit their parents against each other. It has been said that the best way to love your children is to love them. Setting an example for your spouse to be the most important person in your life will help your children feel safe in their family. And your spouse will appreciate your efforts.

             

4.      Don't put a burden on the other person to make you happy!

Most of the time you like to agree, agree and agree. So, you put on a tough, upset face and worked hard to please. This is what lovers often do. They have expended a lot of energy in Cajoling and this diminishes the joy and happiness of the moment. People who have a long face and expect Cajole from others and please them are forcing others to flee.

 

5.      Talk as a friend

The bottom line is that friends don't have specific expectations. The way they accept you. Obviously, you will expect something from your partner, but don't forget to talk to them as friends when you feel they need something. Don't make decisions, don't push in a particular direction, leave your personal agenda out of it and attend only to what you enjoy in the funniest and most fun time.

 

6.      Heard/ listen

It's a universal gesture to communicate effectively with someone, but if you choose a place to use it, it's in your marriage. I know we've already mentioned that, but it's so important that it deserves any theory. Listen and listen to what your spouse is saying (or not saying). Try to understand it. If you don't understand it, ask follow-up questions. Even if you can't help it, hearing is a great cure, so you can at least offer it.

 

7.      Take good care of yourself

You can't give with an empty cup. Take care of yourself no matter what. This is especially important for women, who often give up until it gets worse and then no one is happy.

 

8.      Respect each other at all times

When a couple fails to respect each other, they often fall into negative habits. Research shows that nothing can damage a relationship faster than criticism and criticism. The way you treat your partner will strengthen your relationship. Praising your partner is a quick and easy way to show respect. When you tempt someone to complain about something bad about your partner, ask yourself how you would feel if they did that to you.

             

9.      Help each other

It's not all cooperation and communication and breaks. When the task becomes difficult, even the toughest can use a little help. When I decided to pursue my dream of becoming a coach and writer, my husband gladly agreed to help me financially, help with marketing and find a good map for his children's book. Actions speak louder than words and no action is greater than helping someone where he wants to be.

 

10.  Say "I love you" every day

Life can be full of surprises and you never know which day may be your last. Always tell your husband or wife that you love them, so you won't regret it if something happens to you. If these words are really hard to put into action, and for some people, even a handwritten note, a card or a text works well. I think people think their spouse loves them because they put the toilet seat down every time. They used it. Or she would not leave her bar hanging on the back of the door every day. But actions are usually not enough. The original words, "I love you" really carry a lot of weight.